Saturday, August 8, 2015

20 months

My daughter has grown so much, so quick these days. In 3 months time, insya Allah, she will turn 2. TWO! (why am i still carrying 10 kgs extra though?)

Ever since she started walking, our routine has became a bit relaxed. I mean, we now can take her to hang washed clothes (as opposed to sneaking off when she's deep asleep), our hands (and muscles) generally get some free time (compared to carrying her).. But certain safety measures still withstand (bathroom doors are closed all the time, no leaving her in her tub).

She enjoys her walks, even gets to pick which shoes she'd like to wear for the day. We have yet to take her to park and let her roam.. soon i suppose.

She has become a bit vocal too, and it's such a delight to see her pronounce "ayam" and "tak" so clearly. These two are recent additions. Other than that, i solely blame phone apps (those baby flash cards) for her pronunciation of "arr-range" (that would be orange) and "air-pearl" (apple). 

Her growing phase also include unnecessary throwing objects and fake tears :D i hope we can try the reason-out exercise soon, before other parents think we're spoiling her. I notice these actions are usually when she demands attention and protests for things we want her to do (but she resists).

I have been really worried she hasn't started eating like all her similar age friends do. You know, munching pieces of chicken/fish, slurping soups, chewing pasta strands.. but after one conversation with a close friend, i decided to put it to rest. As of now, she eats:
  • fruits (watermelon, banana, apple, grapes, peaches)
  • porridge + pasta (with carrot/broccoli, fish/chicken)
  • biscuits (digestives are her favs!.. cheese bangkit and Oat Krunch)
  • yogurt
  • bread (with ONLY peanut butter choc spread.. no jams please)
  • maruku, papadom
And now that i think of it, most of it are healthy.. so i shouldn't be complaining anymore. I suppose. She grows leaner, but on the whole her immunity is quite strong so alhamdulillah for that!

I am still fully breastfeeding her thankfully. She drinks chocolate milk to quench her thirst (and additional calcium source) but not to sleep. I shudder to think what happens when she turns two, but let's cross the bridge when we come to it right? I have woken up screaming cos she bites sometimes..urgh

She's imitating our actions a lot, especially during solat and laundry times. I'm quite pleased she understands the concept of solat and i hope i can teach her more later.

We don't know whether we'll throw her a party this year because her dad would be away :( maybe just a cake for me? 

...and i'm extra grateful she's sleeping longer now. Hence the long post on Saturday morning. Ok, let's fry some rice!!

Wednesday, August 5, 2015

What goes around


In my 6 years so far working here, I've learnt that:
a. Do not ever do wrong to other colleagues. 

Desperation and pressure to be seen or deemed the best has brought the worst in people. I have witnessed, heard and read friends or friends of friends be victimized by office politics. They usually thrives and moves on, but time and time again these jokers' reputation will be known to many.

I have been in too many situations where i could be evil. But i firmly believe there is more to life than being acknowledged for things you did not do / stepping on other's path. There is family, hobby (gym / spa/ vacation) and foremostly, God.

I have also been accused of things i did not do, but i turned deaf. I believe if people are really interested to know me, they'll ask. Time and time again truth will prevail, with or without me explaining. 

b. Keep a/few tight circle of good willed people

I have been fortunate i am still friends with the first batch of people i meet in 2009. They are very very experienced and humble... how lucky am i? We are talking years in operation, technically sound, yet they do not gloat. They are funny, dependable, wise and generous.

It just is icing on the cake when these people are also interconnected with people i met when i moved department and switched disciplines. See how big yet small we are? That's why rule no.1 applies. 

I think as we get older, our value defines us greatly. While there are some features i believe i can learn from our surroundings / colleagues, i firmly believe one thing that i should always remember is never forget i'm here to work. To earn a living. Not to trump anyone in order to be successful.

One thing i see all these people have in common is they are all materialistic. Sadly.